Should I be mad that I wasn't told of his wedding? - new born congratulation messages
We met at the university, has taken a number of times, but he freed himself. Still in contact. Finally, the two left the country in various places of work and school to go to ... remain good friends, closer, and there was a significant flirting friendship with certain phone / instant messaging. This situation lasted for 5 years. Recently, about 6 months went by when we do not talk ... when suddenly changing your Facebook status to "commitment". He told me, and when I wrote a congratulatory letter, he thanked me and said he was crazy.
It has about 5 months ago, since messages are exchanged. I heard from a friend that had her wedding last weekend. Should I be mad that I did not say, let alone invite me? Keep in mind this man was the love of my life for 8 years and everyone knew it. Am I out of line and hurt bad?
Thursday, February 4, 2010
New Born Congratulation Messages Should I Be Mad That I Wasn't Told Of His Wedding?
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No, you must be crazy. You can not help but be found, but it is pointless to be mad. Only the left "a few times and it seems that you only had the best of friends. And then he committed while he was not spoken at a time (probably remained trapped in falling in love) and, frankly, would have no problem and invites you to her wedding. They both have a common history and came only a few times, you will see clearly marked as "the love of his life." Unfortunately, he felt the same thing and - wisely, in my opinion - decided that the wedding invite.
In fact, I do not think why he was at your wedding, or even say, was specially invited. It seems in the space of about a year, shared a message - on Facebook, of all possible places. I ask someone who lives far from me, no matter if you've ever been to or not.
You have to turn the page. He is now married, and it is not enough room for friendship AnymMineral. (And to be honest, flirtatious friendship, probably the only part of their lives.) Go, and re-open his meeting with a person.
Go ahead and excited, but there is nothing you can do. Probably not speak because his girlfriend, now his wife ignored.
You may have seen "madly in love with it" with him, but apparently not feel the same for you.
Get over it and move in his life.
You must be crazy. His wife may have been a threat or may have seen as the equivalent of an ex. Except that almost 6 months have passed and no one really spoke. May be (with the citizens distracted) forget his name, considering that I invite you. Perhaps he was too busy to build time and a scholarship twice before you think of a last-minute invite. In any case I think they are injury-line and / or angry.
I have long been in place. I loved my best friend from high school, even if I tell others. I thought it was "The One". Now it says, the best friend was one of the largest s ******' in the face of the planet. I have not spoken with his best friend, that more than 10 years. Just as I wanted so much to my husband. All I want is your old friend, best wishes for your wedding, and put him in his past.
It is time to turn the tide. Good luck. :)
As a bride-to-be, I would very upset that my ex-wife, boyfriend or ex-GF at my wedding. They are no longer part of his life - and have been for some time. You're the only one that has not happened. It is painful, because I've been there, but just as usual.
, Hurt, is understandable, but I think you're a little out of proportion. People grow apart and they are not obligated to every detail of their lives with those who time before have issued shares.
You can hurt and angry all you do not want change, but the fact that he is married. Take time to get angry about it and then you go ... Obviously he has done.
If you are injured outside the home row and feel angry and foolish to a flirtation-online / community had nothing to play fantasy / role.
Now they are wiser and that it never happens again.
Your feelings are to understand your feelings, but ... his commitment and his priority is his wife, and have no idea what he thinks about his former relationship with you ..... You may have requested that the decline of friendship, which is not unusual.
or have a small wedding, "intimate" with close friends and family only ...
... and may have played in the relationship, much more than he on his side.
You see, they obviously need advanced and well ..... can not hold it because he was not ... and just because it doesn t just love that you are forced to build a friendship, or you continue to keep in your life .. which is not resolved to accept it. He is married to a woman.
Good luck.
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